I’m pleased to announce that I received official notification today from the Internal Revenue Service that our 501(c)(3) application has been approved!
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Post contributed by Brad Genereux:
Four days ago, Tyler and I set out to walk the Camino. So far, things have gone very well. Tyler was noticeably anxious before the initial departure at Saint Jean Pied du Port. Coiled tightly like a spring, he was in dire need of simply relaxing and allowing the flow of the Camino to wash over him. Now, four days into the pilgrimage, the changes are already visible. The changes include more smiling, increased interest in others, and being more relaxed.
The first day we crossed the Pyrenees. While it is the most difficult day of hiking, it arguably has the most beautiful views on the entire French Camino. Weary, but filled with a sense of achievement, we reached the other side to enjoy a big dinner followed by a clean bed in the albergue. Today I am writing from Puente la Reina, roughly 15 miles from our starting point. Yet, with only the 57 of the 500 miles walked, Tyler is already smiling and more relaxed.
Much of the credit for making Tyler feel welcomed and accepted as another peregrino on “The Way” goes to my great friend, Jean Baptiste. He volunteered to walk this crucial first portion of the Camino with us. He carries a guitar and has a knack for easy conversation. The other peregrino pictured is Paulo, also from France, who joined our small group two days ago. Paulo is also a musician and teams up with Jean Baptiste to play music at random times throughout our walk.
We have a long way to go yet, in every sense, but the changes I am already seeing are impressive. The combination of fresh air, exercise, and the magic of the Camino are having a noticeable effect. I look forward to witnessing what the days, weeks and miles ahead have in store for Tyler.
(The picture above was taken after breakfast in Pamplona, just before heading out on our daily hike.)
A couple of months ago I reconnected with a friend who I’d grown up with. We had been out of contact for more than 20 years and I heard from her out of the blue.
As it turns out, we shared some life experiences – and a mission to help Veterans.
She shared her story, and the story of her son Daris with me and it hit home….
Her son Daris had been in the Marine Corps. He served well and did a great job until he was prescribed OxyContin for a minor injury. He was immediately hooked.
His dependence and habit grew over time until it consumed him and was cause for his discharge from the military. His shame was absolute and so he kept it a secret.
He returned to his hometown and tried to settle into his new norm – but the addiction was still there and he had to feed it. His habit grew overtime until he simply couldn’t afford to but the OxyContin off the street. At $300 per day every penny he had went towards his addiction until one day, for economic and availability reasons he tried heroin.
For only $30 per day he was able to chase the dragon.
He was obviously suffering immensely, his habits changed. No more gym, no more food, no more family gatherings. He finally came to his Mom to ask for help. She immediately put him in rehab – he received the help and was able to clean up.
Against all advice, he left rehab early. After all, he was young and confidant – he had gotten help but he felt he could handle this on his own.
A month after he left rehab, the dragon came calling. He tried it “just one more time” and it killed him.
Daris died on 12 November 2015 at the age of 23.
His mother, Melissa, founded “Project Daris” to raise awareness and campaign against drug abuse. She is truly a hero in every sense of the word and so, this Camino I will carry the dogtags that Daris wore in honor of Daris and his mother.
To learn more about PROJECT DARIS visit the website at http://projectdaris.com/
Tyler’s issues catch up with him and it leads to his discharge from the Army. He is lost and in despair but finally reaches out to his wife for help – and then discovers “Veterans on the Camino” and finds new purpose.
Tyler returns from Afghanistan but his problems only get worse –
Participation in pilgrimage journeys is on the rise globally with people undertaking journeys on every continent and within vast cultural contexts. We know that motivations for these journeys can be based in a religious/spiritual framework, but many people participating in a pilgrimage have no particular religious motivation or expectation from the experience. Yet, there is a general “quest” that occurs for every pilgrim and every type of pilgrimage journey.
In light of this, are there particular reasons for why a pilgrimage might appeal to a military veteran? There are certainly exemplars of military pilgrimage for active duty personnel (e.g., hike to Masada for oath-taking ceremonies for the Israel Defense Force), for military veterans (e.g., Museum of the Marine Corps), and for those honoring war dead (e.g., Normandy, Gallipoli, and Pearl Harbor). But what about pilgrimage journeys aimed at healing and transformation for military veterans? The Warriors Pilgrimage to Lourdes is one specific pilgrimage that fills the need for such journeys for military veterans. Beyond this, depending on the individual, and the context for the journey, nearly any pilgrimage journey can provide a framework for healing and transformation. While not an exhaustive list, I have detailed below some key reasons why pilgrimage journeys may be particularly meaningful for military veterans and, moreover, why these journeys may lead to healing and transformation.
- Honoring those who have gone before – military personnel have a strong tradition of honoring the service members who have served in the military, in general, and, specifically, those who have previously served in one’s particular unit. Such historical narratives underpin the legends, myths and ethos of military culture. Military veterans will find that pilgrimage journeys provide a framework for honoring those who have come before and becoming aware of one’s own place in time and space. I have interviewed dozens of pilgrims and, without exception, they share with me about a sense of awareness of others who have moved through the same space and even note the significance of seeing older pilgrims and younger pilgrims sharing an experience. Additionally, most pilgrimage journeys follow ancient paths and the route goes through historically significant landscapes and geological/architectural structures.
- Side-by-side movement – movement, and tasks, in a military context are often completed side-by-side (e.g., physical training, marching, cleaning weapons, etc.). Such side-by-side physical positioning, and parallel activity, leads to conversations between and among those participating in the activity or exercise. Often, conversations evolve into more personal disclosures and increased support occurs. This type of side-by-side and parallel movement also emerges as part of a pilgrimage journey. Because the body is in motion, focus is on the horizon (rather than on face-to-face eye contact), the physiological systems are active (i.e., blood flow, heart rate, oxygen levels) and the pace is comfortable, pilgrims have decreased defenses and increased openness to share with one another and offer mutual support. This is further discussed below in the action versus talking section.
- Ritual and rites of passage – The overarching culture of the military is embedded with ritual and rites of passage. Such rites of passage include boot camp or officer candidate school, promotion ceremonies, and unit specific rituals. The late anthropologist Victor Turner (1974) suggested that rites of passage, particularly pilgrimage, lead to various levels of communitas, which is an organic sense of communing with those taking part in the rite of passage. More readily available exemplars of communitas include the phenomenon that occurs when there is a sense of unity among concert-goers of a high intensity concert, participation in a political rally, profound spiritual engagement, and/or combat experiences. The pilgrimage journey itself is a rite or passage, but there are many rituals that comprise the journey — many of which are meaningful because of how the individual pilgrim constructs the experience. A military veteran may carry with him a photo of a friend killed in combat or bring a stone to leave at a sacred point of the journey. Other pilgrims may undertake the journey as a result of a shared plan with a loved one who has died and the journey brings a sense of closeness and comfort for the living.
- Identity transformation – When a young woman or young man enters the military, s/he transitions from a “civilian” to a soldier, marine, sailor, etc. This process of identity transformation occurs vis-à-vis a rite of passage as mentioned above, but carries with it new identities, roles, language and relationship to the non-military world. There is a sense of belonging to one’s military community and an in-group status/identity is formed. For veterans leaving military service, the shock of losing one’s military identity can be significant. Inherent in a pilgrimage journey is the adoption of an identity of “pilgrim” (even if this is contained to the duration of the journey) and one now belongs to a community of pilgrims. During some types of pilgrimages, the pilgrim even adopts a new name for the duration of the pilgrimage and operates within this identity throughout the pilgrimage process. Beyond this, pilgrims often remain connected with other pilgrims met during the journey and maintain close contact via phone, social media and email. Often the new community will gather for reunions and reminisce about the pilgrimage experiences as well as life experiences beyond the shared journey. For many military veterans, this is a similar camaraderie as that which was experienced in a military environment.
- Focus on action versus focus on dialogue – military personnel often are either training for or engaged in the execution of action plans. This mission focus, and rigid hierarchical structure, is often missed once a veteran has left military service. The veteran has spent years using his/her body for a particular objective in a particular space. Researchers writing about therapeutic landscapes have noted the importance of the body moving through a particular geographical terrain (Andrews & Moon, 2005). Another researcher suggested that “shared direction of movement and a shared vista results in fewer non-verbal signals passing between individuals walking together, than if they were seated opposite in a more static environment.” Additionally, the social interaction that occurs while walking is “experienced as low in emotional intensity…this may help to facilitate more emotional depth in conversations…and possibly even remove the perceived need to share anything significant about oneself at all” (Doughty, 2013). For military veterans used to a focus on action, rather than dialogue, as well as operating in a side-by-side, parallel environment, a pilgrimage journey may provide the optimal conditions for movement based healing.
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